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For most people the words “electricity” and “genitalia” should never be combined! However, what is known as electro sex is becoming increasingly popular, not just with the BDSM community but with people who want a little something different to the usual thrusting and vibrations too.
The prospect of electricity and sex together is a little intimidating! The words alone conjure up all sorts of questions:
What does it feel like?

Will it hurt?

Will it leave marks?

Will I get superpowers if I use it?
All these questions are easily answered, but it seems no one is brave enough to do it! However, LoveHoney wants to take the mystery out of electro-sex and let you in on BDSM’s best kept secret!

What is electro sex?

Electro sex is a way of stimulating the genitals and erogenous zones with a safe amount of electrical energy. The human body is mostly made of water so is an excellent conductor of electricity. By applying a sex toy or conductive pad to the body, electricity can pass through the nerve cells creating pulsing, almost vibrating kinds of sensations.

How does electro sex work?

Imagine an electricity circuit: You have the battery, the wires, a variable and an outsource. In the case of electro sex, you have a power pack (the battery), a set of wires (the err… wires), a sex toy (the variable) and your body (the outsource)!

The power pack normally runs on a 9 volt battery, a fairly safe amount of electricity equivalent to 6 AAAA batteries. The energy from the power pack is transferred through the wires to the sex toy. Most electro sex toys are made of aluminium or another highly conductive metal, allowing energy to travel through easily. In order to work, there needs to be a way for the energy to leave the circuit - that exit being through you! By touching the toy the circuit is completed and the energy can flow outwards instead of round and round.

Scientific, eh? But that’s something you really don’t need to worry about! The important thing is the incredible and inimitable sensations that are created by this fantastic toy!

What does it feel like?

We have all been told since a very young age that electricity is dangerous and that if we come into contact with it, it will kill us (remember those chilling pylon adverts?)! And whilst we don’t advise you go out and climb into an electricity power station for sexual thrills, it is possible to safely and harmlessly enjoy electro sex.

Electrical stimulation doesn’t cause any pain or discomfort (unless you want it to)!

The lowest setting on the power pack gives you a pulsing sensation, not too dissimilar to a slow vibration. The mid-range setting gives you a tingling feeling; almost like pins and needles. You can tell there has been an increase in power but it is still not painful. To experience anything verging on pain you have to turn it up to the last quarter of power (usually settings 8, 9 and 10). Even then, it’s not painful in the traditional sense - it’s more like a dull, almost snapping sensation. Imagine pinging an elastic band against your skin numerous times in quick succession and you’ll be approaching a feeling similar to the top settings.

Is it safe?

In short, yes it is. The electricity allowed through the device is fairly minimal and can be compared to that of a TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) unit, as used in hospitals. It shouldn’t leave any marks or discolouration to the skin but you may be left with a tingly feeling for a little while afterwards.

However, as with anything, there are certain guidelines you should follow:

- Always use with the correct power pack and batteries.

- Do not use electro sex toys on the nipples unless the product specifies it has both positive and negative contacts on it.

- Do not use on broken or irritated skin.

- Do not use above the waist.

- Use a water-based lubricant to increase sensitivity and to avoid any skin tenderness.

- Do not use if you are pregnant or suffering from a heart condition, heart disease or epilepsy!

So, bottom line: Is it enjoyable?

YES! Electro sex toys can do the same job as a vibrator but with more unique and tantalising sensations! Rub the Mystim Lust Egg against the clitoris for a throbbing sensation that pulses through your nerve endings.

Whether you enjoy G-spot stimulation or a bit of anal fun, these distinctive sex toys can also be inserted to provide absolutely blissful internal feelings!

If you want a unique introduction to the kinkier side of things, then tie your partner to the bed with the Flirt Our First Bondage Kit, then try placing the ElectraPads on various areas of your partners body and turning up the ElectraStim Power Pack just enough so they can feel it buzzing! Being tied down and feeling the unbelievable sensations all over will be enough to send them to electro stimuli heaven!

The most important thing to remember with electro sex is that it will be different for everyone - whilst some will relish in the new sensations, others will find them too strong. Go slowly, use lots of lube and experiment with new toys at lower intensities. Before you know it, you’ll be inching your way to number 10 on the dial and purring with satisfaction!

Confused as to exactly how those strange looking penis pumps actually work?
You wouldn’t be alone in thinking that they appear to lack a certain amount of erotic appeal!
But not only can a penis pump deliver intense personal gratification, it can get a man perfectly primed for bedroom action and increase length and girth - given time!
So read on to discover how to use a penis pump safely and enjoyably!

Step 1
Start with a full or semi-erect penis.

Step 2
Apply lubrication to the opening of the pump and to your penis, so it will slide in easily.

Step 3
Insert the shaft of your penis into the cylinder until the base of the pump is pressed firmly against your body so it is air tight.

Step 4
Set the air release on the pump to only allow air into the cylinder by turning it clockwise.

Step 5
Start compressing and releasing the pump slowly, taking time to get used to the sensations and the pressure.

Step 6
Continue pumping until your penis is firmly erect.

Step 7
Stop and check your penis - if there’s any unusual discolouration or bulging of veins then stop. If all seems well, carry on pumping.

Step 8
Once you’re at a good length or feel that you are at full pressure, stop and slowly turn the air release anti-clockwise, allowing the air to disperse and your pumped-up penis to slip freely from the cylinder!

If any discomfort or pain is felt at all during any point of the pumping, STOP! At first it will be a strange sensation but it should not hurt!
It’s recommended that you pump for no longer than 20 minutes, to avoid damage to the blood vessels in your penis, but it’s perfectly fine to use the pump often with gaps between sessions.
With continued pumping, you’ll see semi-permanent results with a significant increase in girth and a minor increase in length.

A SCIENTIFIC STUDY ON THE TASTE, TEXTURE AND SIDE EFFECTS OF AN INTIMATE LUBRICANT

A Report by Carly “Pleasure” Drew

Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant is a 125ml bottle of clear water based gel which looks somewhat like bubble bath. I love a good bubble bath, especially whilst eating marshmallows, so this particular taste test already seems promising.
The short, rather cute looking bottle has lovely graphics and a lid that matches the packaging. This co-ordination of colours pleases me, especially as I notice that it also matches the bottle of water and tissues sat on my desk. I will put them all together to create a lovely display for anyone who chooses to visit me in my corner of the office.
Upon opening the sealed bottle, there is a faint, yet delicious fruity scent. I am slightly perplexed at the name of this product as it is listed as “blue raspberry”. From my previous research, I would have assumed a blue raspberry was in fact a blueberry. However, the smell is more of a general berry odour and, depending on your preference, can be assumed to be raspberry, blueberry or even blackberry.
My theory is that this intimate lubricant, with its multi-odoured properties and delightfully co-ordinated packaging (I have also discovered that it matches the trimming on my handbag so will place that in my ever growing museum of “things that match the Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant bottle”), will be delicious in flavour and could be considered as one of my five-a-day of fruit and vegetables.

Hypothesis
In order to prove my theory that Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant will taste simply magical in flavour, I intend to lick the product from the back of both hands (for an unbiased opinion) then produce a full report on my findings.

Experiment Diary
14.00 - Open bottle of Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant and inhale the sweet, exquisite smell.
14.01 - Consider using the lubricant as a perfume.
14.02 - Sneeze loudly in a very quiet office and headbutt the bottle in the process.
14.04 - Rub lubricant with my little finger on to the back of one hand, then rub both hands together in a clockwise direction.
14.10 - The lubricant is still moist on the back of my hands, so even if it doesn’t taste like little pixies are caressing my taste buds, it certainly does the job as a lubricant.
14.12 - Lick the back of both hands whilst hiding behind my computer screen.
14.14 - Think about going out and buying some ice cream so the lubricant can be used as a delicious topping and/or sauce for it.

Findings
The Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant was licked from my hands in short, gentle licks, having learnt my lesson from the previous taste test and wanting to avoid unnecessary gurning or cringing in the office this time.

My findings are very positive for this product. The lubricant really does last longer than most Hollywood marriages and happens to taste like a party in my mouth, to which all the berries are invited!
The texture is almost syrupy, making me want to pour it on pancakes and eat whilst reading a fine piece of Chaucer. The texture is also similar to your own natural lubrication, making it perfect for whatever sexual shenanigans you decide to get up to!

Conclusion
In conclusion, my hypothesis has been proven true - Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant does indeed taste like Paul Daniels has blessed my tongue with his magical sorcerery (that’s not a euphemism).

There are currently no side effects from the reasonable amount of lubricant I have ingested. Therefore, I believe it is safe to conclude that Sliquid Swirl Glycerin Free Blue Rasperry Flavoured Lubricant is the ideal lubricant for oral, vaginal and anal sex, as well as ice cream sundaes.

I’m not always noisy, but if some is driving me in wild then I am a bit of a squealer, so I hope that this never happens to me. A man has been banned by a court from his girlfriend’s home after a noisy sex session because neighbours complained! Perhaps I should take to wearing a gag - hmm actually I’d enjoy that.

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Lessons from 10 of the weirdest & wildest sex classes from across the country.

I am sitting on the floor with 18 other women at the Good Vibrations store in Berkeley, CA. We’re all here to learn the art of “male erotic massage.” In other words, we’re taking a class on how to give a good hand job.

Chances are, the last time you took a class on sex was in 10th grade (when the message was “don’t do it!”). But today’s real sexual revolution is in grown-up sex education. Sex classes are more popular than ever these days and are popping up in cities all over the country. For about $25, you can add to your sexual repertoire, refine your technique, and improve your sex life. “Couples today want to have better relationships and better sex, and if taking a class helps, they’ll do it,” says Carol Queen, Ph.D., chief cultural officer and staff sexologist at the Good Vibrations stores in San Francisco, Berkeley, and Boston. “The classes are fun and sexually inspiring. People feel more confident when they’re better informed.”

Personally, I love going to “sex school.” As someone who makes her living researching and writing about sex, I can never get enough when it comes to learning more about it. But I know that for a lot of people, the idea’s a little embarrassing. So I went to sex school for you and took some notes. Here are the best tips ever from 10 of the weirdest, wildest, sexiest sex classes in the country.

Tap into all your senses
At “Coming to Our Senses: A Sensational Sensuality Workshop” (lasara.us), instructor and author LaSara FireFox says, “The more you indulge in your senses and become familiar with them, the more pleasure you’ll be able to receive.” Her “isolation and indulgence” exercises help you single out the senses and explore them one by one. For each exercise, one partner is the guide and the other is the “sensory explorer.” My partner and I start with him blindfolding me, to take the emphasis off the visual. To experiment with hearing, students whisper in each other’s ears, forcing them to listen really closely. Isolating touch involves rubbing something on each other’s skin, like a feather or honey. (Classes are clothed, but students are told to practice at home au naturel.) We’re encouraged to say, after experiencing a sensation, “I like that feeling” or “I don’t like that.” Likewise, when sampling smells, it’s okay for one person to say, “That smells good” and the other to say, “That makes me puke.” The lesson is to communicate what you like and dislike, an idea that’s stressed at many of the classes I attended.

Touch “everything but”
“The object of this class is to drive a man insane,” announces our instructor, Elizabeth, at the start of the “Male Erotic Massage” class I took at Good Vibrations (goodvibes.com). How do you do that? Begin by touching everything but his penis. “Start with a very soft, featherlike touch,” explains Elizabeth, a professional masseuse. “Lightly touch the pubic bone area to wake up the nerves in the area.”


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For obvious reasons you can’t recycle a condom, but have you ever wondered which countries “tax” sex the most?
Well… Environmental Graffiti has decided to create a detailed graphical diagram, complete with wallpaper download for your viewing pleasure. When looking at it, please don’t deduce that bar heights are correlated to penis size (that’s just offensive).

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Nine British women were facing prostitution charges after being arrested at the weekend for taking part in an oral sex competition in the Greek holiday island of Zakynthos, police said on Monday.

Six British and six Greek men, including two bar owners, were also charged in the incident, which took place at Laganas beach in the south of the Ionian island, which lies off the west coast of mainland Greece, police said.

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A woman slept with her sibling for years and has good memories. Not many people understand their relationship, she says

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I am very excited. One of my fuck buddies is coming over for the weekend in a few hours and I can’t wait. In some ways he’s like a part time boyfriend, or a boyfriend without the hassle of a relationship if that makes any sense to anyone but me. I am looking forward to fucking him senseless all over the house but I’m also looking forward just as much to cooking him dinner and curling up on the sofa with a nice bottle of red wine or two and watching a dvd.

That’s something I would not have said a few months ago!

I’ve never wanted a boyfriend. I don’t know why really. I guess I am quite heterophobic. I have a bit of a phobia of straightness. Fear of the unknown I guess. I did some kind of psychoanalysis test a while ago that actually showed that I like gay people more than straight people. It’s not that I don’t like straight people but I think that we like what is familiar and to me straightness seems like an odd thing. An odd and scary thing, marriage, kids arghhhh! If I did want a boyfriend I’d want him to be bisexual. That way we’d have more of an understanding of eachothers sexuality and our needs. One of my heterophibic views is that to a straight guy my bisexuality is a novelty. Something that they will never understand or really accept. Thinking of me as greedy or just messing about, or worse still thinking that if I fuck a woman it is still all about them and their enjoyment of watching rather than the fact that I really want to fuck her.

So for the moment I am happy with my part-time relationship / non relationship arrangements of which I have three. Kind of testing that water and learning more about straight guys. To me this is sexual experimentation in the extreme. It’s probably just a phase I’m going through, or perhaps I’m just making do until the right woman comes along. haha

The finding that women who do not use condoms during sex are less depressed and less likely to attempt suicide than are women who have sex with condoms and women who are not sexually active, leads one researcher to conclude that semen contains powerful-and potentially addictive-mood-altering chemicals.

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